Just My Type

My discovery of what I seem to be attracted to.

Though I do have a knack for falling for the wrong guys, they aren’t necessarily bad guys. Just unavailable for good reason too.

The first thing I notice are the eyes and the next is the smile. With the eyes, it doesn’t really matter what color they are. I just have to get a feeling from them. If I can look into them and I get kindness, caring and other good qualities then that is a step up. What would make it better is if they had glasses. Then I will more than likely notice the person. I don’t know when this thing started or how but for me there is nothing better then when a man wears his spectacles. I think they highlight the eyes more and since I notice the eyes anyway it just helps the process along faster.

With the smile, same thing with the eye thing I have to get a good vibe from it. It has to be warm and inviting. It’s got to be a smile that will give me no other option but to smile back.

More than anything the guy has to have a good head on their shoulders. I like confidence but I don’t like cockiness. A little modesty never hurt anyone. I like when they know what they want to do for their future. I like that they have goals, current and long term ones. They have to be hard working and pretty much someone who will listen. Honesty is good but they don’t have to be brutal. There is nothing more attractive then for a man to be passionate about something.

I love humor, and honestly who doesn’t? But, if the guy can make me laugh that is always a plus. Being comfortable with who you are is a great quality. There is nothing wrong with being a sweetheart. I love it when someone is as excited about something as I am. When a guy doesn’t take himself too seriously is almost always a sure way to a good time. Being able to have a long lasting conversation with a guy is always a plus. To have some sort of intelligence is a major bonus. Even if I may not know about a good portion of things I love when a guy introduces me to new things. Whether it is music, literature, films etc.

The guy doesn’t have to be drop dead gorgeous because in the end if he has all the said things then I will think he is the best looking man I have ever seen. I am really big on personality. It always brings out the best in people and if the guy is a genuinely good guy then he will definitely shine in my eyes.